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« Reply #30 on: November 20, 2009, 10:02:14 PM »

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It might be an idea to do some contemplating and ask yourself if you have been subconsciously programmed to get 2nd ever time. I have known several dancers that are programmed to get the result they get every time and it has gone on for years. They have gotten the same result every time they dance important competitions. Couples in front of them retire or split up and out of the blue comes a couple up from behind and beats them. Often couples are not even consciously aware they are programmed. They just don’t understand why they can’t move forward. If somebody told them they are programmed, they would just laugh at it. The fact that you are asking shows, that you are ready to make changes. Start you reprogramming today so that you are no longer get 2nd place. All the best with the first places that will soon come your way!!!

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I believe we all can do this unconsciously in our life....but it is very hard for others to be open to this at times....because then they may superficially try and still get the same outcome not realizing that it is internal belief that must exude throughout mind and body. Hence having life coaches. my sister is going to be one now...

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« Reply #31 on: November 23, 2009, 04:16:37 AM »

It's important to remember, also, that there is another side to the thought process...  what we call 'the sponsoring thought'. Rather than thinking "Second, again.", and being dismayed, one can say, "Yes! Second, still!", and look for what will move them ahead.
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« Reply #32 on: November 23, 2009, 06:23:25 AM »

Yes - its easy to forget that the established stars are not the only challenge, there are the new upstarts too!
Right now I would kill to come second at a big comp...

er, figuratively speaking of course Grin
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« Reply #33 on: November 23, 2009, 06:34:44 AM »

It's important to remember, also, that there is another side to the thought process...  what we call 'the sponsoring thought'. Rather than thinking "Second, again.", and being dismayed, one can say, "Yes! Second, still!", and look for what will move them ahead.

yes...I am so happy if I get a second....not that I don't think I can win but any placing is great.... Grin
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« Reply #34 on: May 25, 2013, 11:27:28 AM »

I know that this is an old thread and I'm not sure SW is even around anymore, but it sure would be nice to hear about the breakthrough and how it was accomplished. Smiley
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« Reply #35 on: May 26, 2013, 12:30:16 AM »

I had hoped he would pop in, he is back on the dance floor and had a reasonably successful weekend for a return Cheesy
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« Reply #36 on: May 26, 2013, 03:16:34 AM »

I had hoped he would pop in, he is back on the dance floor and had a reasonably successful weekend for a return Cheesy
I want to meet the new partner Smiley
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« Reply #37 on: May 26, 2013, 08:21:59 AM »

No longer stuck at second?
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« Reply #38 on: May 26, 2013, 09:05:16 AM »

no still a second and a third but he has been off the floor for a while so that is a really good result.
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« Reply #39 on: May 26, 2013, 11:26:10 AM »

I'm glad to hear he's doing well. Smiley
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« Reply #40 on: May 26, 2013, 06:37:03 PM »

wish I was stuck at 2nd  Tongue
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« Reply #41 on: May 26, 2013, 10:44:19 PM »

stuck on 2nd again! lol
and 3rd for the open, but I'm not bragging too much since all the top open dancers are at blackpool
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« Reply #42 on: May 26, 2013, 10:47:50 PM »

I had hoped he would pop in, he is back on the dance floor and had a reasonably successful weekend for a return Cheesy
I want to meet the new partner Smiley

You didn't say you want to meet me!  Roll Eyes
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« Reply #43 on: May 26, 2013, 11:50:56 PM »

I had hoped he would pop in, he is back on the dance floor and had a reasonably successful weekend for a return Cheesy
I want to meet the new partner Smiley

You didn't say you want to meet me!  Roll Eyes

Of course we will, we will be there for Friday Night, So Dinner first and then Perhaps Dales for practice?
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« Reply #44 on: May 27, 2013, 12:14:33 AM »

Hi SW!  Nice to meet you!  Smiley
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