Sorry this is the second part of the question
2. Then there is the quickstep, the slow slow quick quick thing, why are we bobbing? we bob at the start and its probably not visible, but i feel it, i feel the bob from my partner and i start to bob because he bobs. Are we suppose to bob?! then i cant keep up with the slow slow quick quick and it just turn into a disaster once we get past the first spin turn, then soon enough the feeling of 'chasing' his rib starts again, then of course i go into panick mode (and forget steps). My weakest link is the running finish, now it turned into a fast walking finish, not a running finish that its suppose to be. My partner told me that when i do the second turn where i go backwards, he has to leap around me, I have tried taking smaller step, but he still said thats too much of a leap for him, all i felt when i turn backwards, is a momentum to swing him around, my partner though, told me that he felt like being yanked around and has to leap.