some f the head movements in Tango are a bit off. the rapid lady head change without any instigation from her partner. find that a bit silly. But always look with interest the changes that are developing and good thing there is other wise it is stagnant and will die.Thats really a very masculine action then. I'm a devout feminist in spirit - but that does not deny masculinity and femininty, far from it, it worships the strengths in both. Standard ballroom is surely one of the best expressions of this aspect of our relationships - to change it is to make it something I don't think it should be. If its all lead follow by both partners (which an uninstigated female head jerk is) then the magic has gone for me.
yes I find it quite disturbing and not easy to watch and I often find the winning couples were calm and very easy to watch.